Dating a man with children
Before dating a man with a child, you should know that they are very concerned and choosy about their dating options.They usually avoid getting into serious relationships and do not easily accept new partners.When you’re dating someone, you want them to be a partner.While it’s OK if one person makes more money than the other, but if that’s the case then the partner who makes less is supposed to pick up the slack in other ways ― that’s not the case when dating a man child.As I mentioned, the man children I’ve dated were “artists.” As a fellow artist, in my own right, I get that when you’re pursuing your art you feel that having a “real” job, as in a job that actually pays a proper wage, can you make feel like a sellout. But what I understand more is that you can’t do your art, or whatever your passion is, if you don’t have a cent to your name.And if you don’t have a passion, you still need a damn job… The worst part about dating a man child is that eventually you feel like a fool…What’s worse is that most of the time these guys don’t even want to have their life together.They’re content to be hanging out a bar on a Tuesday night, with zero ambition or desire to do anything to drink and get laid. Show me a cute wounded “tortured” artist and I will drop everything to save him. What I mean by this, is that a man child doesn't actually do anything at all, but is always saying they’re “planning” on doing something.
That’s exactly what it’s like dating a man child ― “not me” is constantly their answer when confronted with anything that they obviously did.Kids will often limit the time you can spend together and put your love life on a curfew.If things get more serious and long tern, they will play a major role in your relationship.But I also know that you can’t do that every night of the week, because, well, unless you have a trust fund and zero responsibilities, life doesn’t permit such things. That was a concept that none of them could really grasp. I’m usually fairly laid back and not much pisses me off ― except social injustices, of course.So while I always had fun with these man child guys, at some point you realize that doing pickle back shots at 4 a.m. But over the course of my relationships with these man children I was forced to nag, like really nag, because OMG dudes just wouldn’t listen or do what they were supposed to do!
They use their time wisely, and if he is a good father; he will want to spend lots of time with his children.